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Old Feb 12, 2021, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
AND I feel rejected. Both/And as L likes to call it. I'm allowed to have both logic and feeling parts, they're allowed to contradict. I'm allowed to have contrasting feelings too. I love her AND I'm angry at her. I know she's committed to me AND I feel betrayed by her. I want to cling to her AND I want to push her away. It's not either/or. It's grey.
The Both/And I understand. It seems really important. Things often don't easily fit into one box of logic or one box of emotions. They are usually mis-mashed into both. I get what you are saying here. It is grey. That is a good description. Talk about this with L. You're doing a great job about talking about it on here. Talk about it with her too! You can do this! Hang in there! HUGS Kit
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