Oh my god, thanks so much for this. For the support, it means the world! And it helps a lot to discover that we're definitely not alone in this. I believe healing is possible as well.

I've started listening to "The emotionally absent mother" and I find it a tremendous help and comfort. It's spot on for me and it's just such a relief to finally be able to say "yes! THAT's what it is!"

Anyone else had good experience with this book?