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Default Feb 13, 2021 at 04:23 PM
 
@laughnotcry I see the differnce in perception between you and son.

The one thing I would suggest to you is to write down what you are not willing to do, what you might be willing to do if son commits to taking meds and can only stay at your home as maintains taking meds, and what you are willing to do. The reason writing this down before meeting with son is important in my opinion is to prevent the mother in you from caving into nice words from your son. It is a mother's inclination. But having strong boundaries and backing them up can be real love too and do more than caving in can be.

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