I ran into long term T twice, once at the grocery store and once at a public tour of a local historical building. Living in a small area we discussed early on how she would handle it if we ran into each other in public. She would not speak to me first. If I initiated contact she would reciprocate. At the grocery store we both said hi and moved on. At the tour we had to wait for a bit before the tour began so we talked for a few minutes.

Current T and I live about 60 miles apart so not likely to run into each other unless I am on vacation in her town(a beautiful resort town. Before my first vacation I asked if it would be weird or seem creepy if we went there. She said of course not that she was glad that I like millions of other people get to enjoy the beauty of her community. She then mentioned the same speal long term T gave. I have been to her community multiple times and have never run to each other.