Hug's Scarlet, I think your therapist was wrong to tell you about not doing daily reminders when you are dealing with so much. I would be very hurt myself. Just because things are going to be busier for her she can try to do the daily reminders unless you both agree to not do it. I think therapist who take away things like this without talking about it first is not helpful. I know how supportive she has been and I hope on Wednesday you both can talk about this more in depth because it's hard. Hugs