I talked to T on Saturday. She asked me if I could give up Self Harm for Lent. I said no. First because I thought it was kind of cheating. I have a year + without self harm. But I talked to my Pastor's wife and a good friend and they made a lot of sense. They said it is still a daily struggle for me and a daily choice to say no, so I think I am going to think really seriously about giving up for Lent self harm. I'm not sure I can do it but I just did a year, surly I can do 40 days. What do you guys think? Kit