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I think I have much to give but no one wants to receive it.

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Something else I've had experience with. It's the manner, the attitude in which it's given. Those of us that are needy, while we're giving love, we tend to whine about it. Somewhere, in the giving, our own self-pity gets into the mix and comes out stronger than the giving. That's the best way I can describe it. With me, it's humor. I'm making people laugh but it's the neediness in me that's coming out stronger than the humor. People get tired real quick of that!

Something else I've had to check myself on; when I give hugs in 3D. Am I GIVING a hug, or am I taking it? I've caught myself TAKING hugs and hanging on desperately to the person giving it. Eventually, they won't want to give hugs anymore because they/we can actually feel the strength being zapped right out of us with those hugs! I know I can! It's almost suffocating!

Good idea to check yourself out when you're "giving" what you have to give.