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Originally Posted by MisterPaul
Thank you, very on point! Let me describe what I mean:
Before covid I meet a girl on a train in the middle of the day. Everything went pretty amazing - dynamics, content, emotions... the entire conversation was very teasy-flirty and funny at the same time. It lasted for about 30 minutes and we pretty much couldn't take our eyes off each other... And so I can't picture me and that girl on a date that doesn't have a "happy ending" (we didn't catch up because of logistics, she was living 500 miles away from me lol). Again, I know getting intimate so quickly, in general, is a bad idea, but what in the world should I do with her when a thrill is already that strong?
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You can’t imagine a good date without happy ending? Lol Are you saying you can’t wait till at least second date? You don’t think you can enjoy woman’s company without necessarily jumping to bed? I can ensure you that you can wait.
I don’t know if it’s a bad idea to have sex on the first date if you are both into it. It might not be safe but people do it. No rules against it
“What do you do with her?” I hope you don’t think that there is nothing for people to do together but have sex after 30 minutes conversations? Talk? Share more? Some people end first date with a kiss or a hug. Ask to see them again?
You also want to be mindful that what you perceive as “dream come true” “meant to be” “mind blowing encounter” might not be what the other person’s perception is and they might be taken aback by anything forward. They might be just having fun conversation. I am very social and can talk to a wall, if I chat to someone for 30 minutes and make eye contact it doesn’t mean I am about to jump to bed with them or that I am even into them. That’s why it’s wise to wait to meet people couple of times before even making a conclusion about where it’s going
Have you dated before or plan on dating or is this hypothetical?