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Old Feb 16, 2021, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted by MisterPaul View Post
There is a difference between making eye contact and staring. Also, there is a difference between chatting and having those emotional exchanges with full understanding of one another. Seriously, I can tell the difference. It doesn't happen too often, obviously, but it does happen. And no, 30 minutes is nowhere near enough to build attraction, but if you add, say, 2 hour-long date? Maybe.


Well, I struggled with my personality disorder for a long time. Then I used to seek for adventures. Right now there is no night life at all (covid) and I've made some progress with my PD, so I'm thinking about something more casual - but I just don't feel like I sense realities of the game, sort to speak.
Well they say attraction is there actually pretty quick most of the time. It’s either there or it isn’t. It doesn’t mean you must proceed with physical actions.

Usually if you feel strong attraction, you ask if they like to see you again. Even the most adventurous woman will be apprehensive re sex after 2 hours but they might be up to kissing or what not. Nothing wrong with casual if both parties are up to it. But even with casual you might not want to suggest intimacy after 2 hours. No harm in meeting again