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Originally Posted by MisterPaul
I know what you mean, but I just don't know/feel when to proceed and when to keep talking. My senses are damaged by the anxiety and the past with the PD. That's the real problem. And because of it, I often chose to step up rather than wait (when I'm not sure what to do).
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I don’t suggest you proceed to anything forward on the first date. Ask to meet again. If she keeps meeting you few times she is clearly interested, then things develop naturally. It’s ok to feel anxious and not knowing what to do.
It’s also ok to say that you aren’t sure what’s dating etiquette and what’s the best course of action. Women might be understanding. Many people feel anxious on dates because they don’t want to be too forward and don’t want to appear disinterested.