So Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately sometimes it can be hard to deal with Families for one reason or another. From what you wrote it seems like you've tried so i am afraid i don't have a lot to suggest outside of maybe trying it out again sometimes but that is your decision. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @RDMercer, your Families, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?! :yourock