((( HUGS ))) - I am sorry you are having to go thru the betrayal of someone you love and gave your trust to...... I have had my trust broken by the man I love and while I have been able to forgive him it took time (lots of time) to stop the pain from controlling me and the feelings I still had for this man - IF you are willing to work thru the pain then you might have a chance, but please know IF your husband never changes then you will never be free of the inner pain his actions has created in you.

May God give you strength in your time of need as He did for me.