Dear T,
Do I need to talk to you about my feeling of "Why haven't you rejected me by now"? I know it's something we've discussed in the past, but not recently.


Also wondering if we need to talk more about your increased disclosures again. The thing about not wanting your wife to go through you clothing drawers is still striking me as odd. I mean, it was connected to what we were talking about, but a child (what I was talking about) is different from a spouse in terms of that sort of thing. And I don't care if D goes through my dresser drawers. I guess it wasn't just that comment, but the fact that you said you felt comfortable sharing it with me while working in your office, but would feel weird saying it to me while working from home, even though you've made sure no one could hear you there. It's not just that, but just more disclosures and the fact that you've seemed so...personally invested in stuff like school reopenings, like it feels like it's coming from you as an individual vs. you as a therapist. Which, as much as I like that in some ways, concerns me a little.

Love,
LT