Oh what a rough time Almeda. And I sure hope you're okay after the accident!

I doubt seriously your T enjoys making you uncomfortable! He's probably just thinking he has some good insight.

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He said that I always think someone has an angle or agenda. I've known that and so has he for 2.5 years!! So, why does he push these buttons in me then? Is he trying to hurt me and if so, why?

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That's an interesting question. Did you realize your asking what his agenda is in telling you that you always think folks have an agenda? I couldn't help but smile. But honestly, it doesn't sound like he's trying to hurt you at all, only to help increase awareness. I get annoyed by this kind of stuff too, when T brings up all sorts of things that I don't feel like having connected to a current issue (but which likely are).

About the overpayment: Again, I doubt he's trying to send you any kind of message. I'm sure he just forgot to tell the office manager. It might even be weird for him to try to tell an office manager "oh hey, there was an overcharge, but don't fix it." That might actually look weird -- the office manager might think he was trying to rip people off. But if he's anything like my T, that sort of paperwork-type thing would slip his mind entirely. I expect therapists in general aren't too excited by paperwork.

Okay I hope I'm being helpful and not making you feel worse. A rift with a T is always hard.

Sidony