There is no "should" involved when it comes to your feelings. How you feel is meaningful, there is no prescriptive approach. What matters is that you are upset and that needs to be paid attention to.
Personally, I wouldn't upset by this. It hasn't mattered to me what my therapist has offered in terms of meeting in person because I have my own boundary - I don't consider it safe to meet in person until infection rates are minimal. Obviously, I am not suggesting that you should feel the same. However, it has often been useful and empowering for me to consider my boundaries rather than just operating around hers.
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