I agree that you should bring up whatever you're feeling. And that it's OK to feel whatever you feel. She shouldn't have promised anything to you regarding in-person. That's one thing my T has been good about, saying things like he couldn't see being back in the office any soon than x, when x was months away. And when he was getting his first shot of the vaccine a few weeks ago, he said, in response to my questions, that maybe a month after his second shot, he'd see what current infection rates are in our area, what other T's in the area are doing, and ask his wife what she's comfortable with (to my knowledge, she's not yet vaccine-eligible). So not making any guarantees. As frustrating as that can be in a way--it's been nearly a year since I've seen him in person--I'd rather him say he's not sure than make promises he may be unable to keep.


You're on a bit of a deadline due to your move. Any chance she'd be willing to meet you outside? I know it wouldn't be the same, but maybe it could help? Or is it partly about being in her office one last time? (Because I really miss my T's office, too--and the fact that he often meets me virtually from there can make it more difficult, in a way).