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5) And the obvious one. I will compete with every guy you ever had thus far, BUT only 20% of my reasons are fueled by narcissistc drive, the rest is for the sake of quality. I pay a great deal of attention to the way I behave, look, smell, etc. and it does work I put lots of effort into dates, I even plan sometimes to do everyting I can to make that time unique.
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This is what contributes to love bombing because it's about you getting a feed from being "the best". The problem with narcissists isn't the capture, but in sustaining.
The biggest challenge for a narcissist is their own ego, feeding it and protecting it.