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Old Feb 20, 2021, 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted by MisterPaul View Post
I pointed out that such unhealthy weight says a lot about irresponsibility of the man which has a lot to do with attraction.

And no, I wouldn't say those words to someone posted on here that they have eating disorders. But the man is not reading it, so I decided to speak my mind. Sorry if I went too far.
We don’t know if he has eating disorder or in fact we know nothing about this person except that he is overweight. We just want to be mindful of how we approach things especially on this particular forum. It’s ok to advice particular strategy if people ask for advice re stop drinking, doing drugs, overeating etc Not ok to tell others to stop doing something because they are being gross. It never works. People seek help when they are ready. We can be supportive on their journey
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