When you gave me your example and said "if I was dating you" to me, at first I just could not picture that because of our huge age difference, LOL.

First of all, the fact that you are at 25 means your brain is finally developing the prefrontal cortex which is a significant part of the brain in terms of social interactions. This part of the brain affects how one regulates emotions, controls impulsive behavior and assesses risk and making long-term plans. Also, the brain's reward systems doesn't stop growing at age 18 but instead can take more than 25 years to reach maturity.

When you shared your diagnosis, I actually find it questionable considering where your brain maturity level is right now. I also don't recommend sharing that because it's actually too early to say "I am the bad guy" and you are actually going to be doing a lot of learning yet.

The fact that you have taken an interest in working out and developing your body physically is good in more ways than you think. This working out improves your cerebellum part of your brain which is the part of the brain that develops more balance instead of the clumsey lurching typical in younger teens. Personally? I find it hard to hand out a diagnoses when at such a young age and where your brain is at developmentally. That being said, you can learn about the behaviors of said PD and work on learning what not to engage in and why and by that you can improve yourself a great deal.

I know you are younger MisterPaul, so my input is more of steering you away from things that may cause you to unknowingly develop patterns that may not be healthy for you personally. You can embrace anger about those who treated you badly, or you can choose to outgrow them with knowing how that behavior equates true lack of brain development in terms of still being too impulsive and not yet having the brain development to have more respect which is so common in that age group. Truth is, you have much better things now to focus on.