People with personality disorders do have personality, and they can grow, just like you.

I think it's crucial. I never had any problems with girls' attention, but back in a day there was very little I could do with it because I was so anxious and messed up.

You can find a guy who's super handsome, has lots of money, and a big, fancy house, but if he struggles with who he is, you're not going to be happy with him beside you IMO.