I agree, relationships, especially ones that have been long term have lots of challenges to them. It's not cut and dry or black and white. Both learn a lot and have a lot of challenges they face together and we don't JUST have all the answers. I was only 24 when I married, things are VERY different now then at that time. No cell phones or hopping on the computer like so many are so accustomed to now. So many changes we both had to navigate around. And boy trucks are so expensive now, it's insane.