Hi @kittykatheartlove

I haven't read all previous replies here but from what I understand from your post, you're attracted to his personality, very much so, but not sure if you can sleep with him and share physical love. That could be hugely problematic for him if a regular sex life is part of what he would like. Or maybe the sexuality isn't such a big deal for him and for you? It may pay to have those questions cleared up before comitting much further. I personally don't believe it can work if you both want a regular sex life but don't have that sexual attraction, that chemistry.

Then again, maybe you believe those feelings can grow with a little bit more time? I don't know. But I do think listen to your heart and your own basic, direct feelings about it. Be very honest with yourself. Don't fool yourself. 🙏