My last relationship with a girl ended in misery on my part and I'm jumping into the fray again, but this time not as fast. The girl Julie has agreed to be my writing partner and I'm already at the point where she says "l love you." Whenever I'm near her I get butterflies in my stomach and a certain feeling in that place if you what I mean...

I don't want to blow it and make myself look like a fool but I want to go out with her. I know I have to play it cool, but in the meantime she's always on my mind. I'm trying to figure out if it's love like last time or lust. I don't think I have the answer and I need to cope with these intense feelings. Any suggestions?