You are still young. Though i can imagine that divorce is certainly hard try to at least take solace in the fact that you can definitely still rebuild your Life. It will perhaps take Time but Please do not give up Hope as you deserve to be Happy. i agree with the wise and wonderful Open Eyes about this perhaps being a difficult Time for many couples. Please do keep us updated and i am so Sorry if my post wasn't Helpful but i Hope and Pray that things will improve soon for you and your Husband. Have you tried to suggest couple counseling to him as well? Please do keep writing if you want to. Feel free to pm me if you want or other members if they're ok with it. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @ilovecatss, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!