I’m fighting a major resentment against a loved one who’s totally enmeshed with the family member they live with. I feel totally angry tonight and I know the only person I can change is me so I set a boundary with this person so their passive aggressive communication tactic will no longer effect me in one particular situation. I recently learned this loved one communication is passive aggressive and I’m so mad about it. They’re an alcoholic and an addict with untreated mental illness so I shouldn’t be surprised they’re also passive aggressive .