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This is what I need to try to emulate outside of therapy. Of course, it wouldn't be called countertransference, but it would involve sharing with people my motivations and feelings in certain situations when they are driving my actions. It can help the other person "hear" you better if they know where you are coming from.

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That's called good leadership, or servant leadership!