Hi @mickeychheeky, thanks for the sweet response it was heartwarming to read means a lot! I did ask if he was willing to go to couple's counseling and he was not. I also asked if there was anything I could do to change his mind, but he said no.

When he told me he wanted a divorce he said he doesn't blame me and thinks we just aren't a good fit. A lot of what he said didn't make sense to me, but I feel like anything I say or do at this point doesn't change anything. He is very stubborn and once his mind is made, it's impossible to change.

I appreciate you taking the time to read and respond, it's helpful at a time like this. My family is very shocked and keeps telling me they think we will still get back together so it's difficult to talk to them as I know we will not.