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Originally Posted by Rive.
His highness is the only one to make decisions and take any action? Otherwise, he treats you like crap?
Sorry, I still see it as abusive and highly controlling.
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You may be right. It's hard to see what's going on from the inside.
He just wants me to TELL him when I make decisions and take action.
He feels I don't communicate enough. I don't. I always come away feeling like I'm in trouble or something because my bipolar gets so out of control.
I am 100% disabled. I can no longer care for myself. I can't just leave and go wherever I want. Plus, I need my treatments every month unless I want a one way ticket to the nuthouse.
There are definitely issues that need addressing, and they will be as always (that's how you stay together for 30 years). I am still mystified by his reaction - that he made it about communication.