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Old 02-25-2021, 09:53 PM  
Ian1963
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Location: Pretoria, South Africa
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Trig Re: I need some advice

Skeezyks, thank you for you insight. As mentioned in my previous to Amandalouise, we cannot afford therapy. In South Africa private therapy sessions are prohibitively expensive and the public health system almost non existent.

The next thing is going to sound very selfish and that is not my intention.

I am so tired of having to take his age into consideration. That is all I have heard for the last 15 years. The phrase “You knew you were going into a relationship with someone older...” is making me want to vomit every time I hear it lately.

Why is that all on me? The opposite is equally true. My husband also must bear 50% of that particular burden.

Lately, at times
Possible trigger:
After 38 years they still get to mess up my life.

Just to be clear, I am NOT suicidal, I am NOT depressed. I am simply stressed out and I just want some resolution in my life.

Is some inner and outer peace at the same time too much to ask for?
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