Hi R,

I think what we are dealing with at the moment is the line between clarity and consternation. Even though so much time has passed since Chris' death, I recall those events clearly.


With the other experience, there's a sense that I just did not want the information I received. I don't remember being asked whether I wanted these in depth updates, and they haunt me. Surely it's better to get explicit permission from somebody before landing something like that on them?

There's an emotional charge there that I didn't have the chance to deal with. I don't want to go near it, but I don't feel it's right to just leave it be...that doesn't accomplish anything.


Help?