That's terrible But I know he's not having an affair. We work together at home, he is literally never gone. We grocery shop online, the only times he ever leaves is to see his parents and we both share our location on our phones so I know that every time he left to his parents he was with them.

Looking back, I feel like he going through something. He opened a successful business when we were dating and started making a lot of money. We were traveling to very luxurious places and had an insane wedding, but then there were some issues and he had to shut it down. After that the next two businesses he tried to open failed, and now he's back in school finishing his degree. Not just me, others around me have mentioned he seems down and I noticed it too. I think he's going through something inside, but he's not verbal and has trouble communicating so he keeps everything to himself. I think his internal troubles have made him a difficult person, but also is why he just dropped our marriage. It seems like he's unhappy, and blaming our marriage.

In retrospect maybe I should have tried harder to understand what he was dealing with, the problem was I myself was going through some very scary health problems that I'm still dealing with a year later. I spent three months in bed barely able to get up and then spent months regaining my strength. So I have been a bit busy dealing with that.