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Default Feb 27, 2021 at 08:16 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Werewoman View Post
I wasn't aware he was THAT bad. I just want him to stop telling me that I'm hard to live with (I KNOW ALREADY) and tell me what he wants to know. He could have said "Let me know when you get it". I would have been fine with that.
We're talking about it.
To tell you you are hard to live with is difficult to hear. What concerns me is that he says this to you repeatedly and you have also stated that no matter what you do to try and educate your husband, he will not learn on his own about your MI. Instead, he chooses to say insulting and hurtful things by labelling you as being difficult to live with. That only will generate shameful feelings on your part, and perhaps even guilt and my guess, is it also lowers your self esteem?

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