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Old Feb 27, 2021, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
To tell you you are hard to live with is difficult to hear. What concerns me is that he says this to you repeatedly and you have also stated that no matter what you do to try and educate your husband, he will not learn on his own about your MI. Instead, he chooses to say insulting and hurtful things by labelling you as being difficult to live with. That only will generate shameful feelings on your part, and perhaps even guilt and my guess, is it also lowers your self esteem?
Nah. My self esteem is intact. It's not dependent on what others say or do. I outgrew that a long time ago. All I feel is anger. No shame, no guilt, just a lot of frustration and anger.
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