It makes me so angry when i trust someone enough that they can sense i'm in pain and they ask, "Do you have friends or family that can help?" Like, what a stupid question! If i had a loving parent or a loving sibling or a loving best friend HOW COULD IT JUST SLIP MY MIND? It's like they think i've forgotten that i have a nose on my face and that it would be helpful to remind me that i have a nose on my face.

I think what they're really trying to say is, "Hey, i can sense you're in pain and is there someone else to help because i don't want to."