What I did was pretty inexcusable, there's a subreddit called catfish and I talked about her not giving identifying info but details of our relationship on the post I made, because I wanted to know from other people. People post about their relationships all the time on forums right? I didn't say her name or anything identifying about the location. She found out I posted about her, (I also uploaded a second personals post because I wanted other options in case she was a catfish and I thought she was just too good to be true).

I tried to explain to her I didn't mean to hurt her and that my actions were out of insecurity and anxiety but she has cut me off completely. I should not have broken her boundaries and been disrespectful by talking about her behind her back.