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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro
I’m listening just now to a podcast called it “fool me twice” and it’s pointing out as one of the red flag when just from the get go, the other person makes you feel comfortable enough for you to open u very fast about your stuff.
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Or maybe he's a cool dude you're going to reject because of a "red flag" you've heard about in some st*pid podcast.
No offense, but I think people are too complicated to have the same criteria for everyone. I don't want to be unsupportive! The guy may be a player who's working you, or he may be pretty cool person. It's not black and white. We should learn how to verify the stories we're offered instead of how to detect "red flags" - GOD, I HATE THAT PHRASE.
EDIT: Again, I don't want to be unsupportive. I honestly believe that phrase "red flag" is dumb. I may be wrong.