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I so understand how you are feeling about wearing the rings. Yeah.....I think that's why I finally took mine off. It's not real anymore....it's not what we promised to each other anymore. It's done and over and I'm just waiting for the papers to sign. There was no warning....no inkling to him deciding that everything was over. That's what really struck me hard right upside the head ya know?

Even though I'm hurting right now, I can still remember the good times and smile. I have some wonderful memories...there is no doubt about it. But dang it...there is just a little bit in me that needs to lash out....in some way shape or form....and it doesn't even have to be bad....or mean spirited....just a cuff upside the head in some form....*sigh*

You are right, the husbands are the ones who are loosing, and we are going to grow strong from the experience. I will hold onto the ring for awhile....and we'll see how I feel in a few months

Thanks hon....I really appreciate your thoughts and wishes.


sabby