Well, I don't think you do respect my point of view otherwise you would've just let it go without any fuss. We must be honest from the git go @Werewoman.

I'd just like you to know I suffered childhood abuses and too much trauma too, which affected my path through life significantly, as well.

But finally, I'm not interested in using this thread to debate my post but just to answer the OP's question.

Are you okay with that, dear?