Yes, meds are scary, for sure. although there are a very few that do have almost no, or no, side effects - Wellbutrin, for example.
Having a mental illness is an illness like any other. It's emotional and mental, sure, but it's physical, too, and comes along with all the risks and issues - and possibly shortened life span. That's why I give those of us who have mental illness so much credit. Not only do we have a disorder, but we have to deal with stigma. And yet, most of us keep going, hoping, and trying.