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Originally Posted by sarcgeo
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I have had my profile on many online dating sites for months now and recently deleted all of my profiles. I have not had any success with getting messages and perhaps my red flags are many.
As I have been told previously, the fact that I am still married, not yet divorced is a HUGE red flag for many people. But, they don't understand that I can't afford a divorce right now. I would like to add that we live separately.
Second, another huge red flag...I haven't healed from my past.
So, people who haven't been divorced and not over their past apparently are huge red flags.
I go now back to living under my rock. Also, I am pretty sure this pandemic is not helping things either.
--Sarc
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That was a deal breaker for me with my ex fiancé. It took him 6 years to divorce and by that time it was too late. If you can’t afford a divorce you can’t afford a new relationship unless it’s with someone in similar circumstances otherwise that’s not fair to the person you’re dating. I’m sure you wouldn’t be as unwise as to propose marriage to another person while still married.