Since your husband isn’t the one posting on here I don’t want to make this about his needs and how to accommodate him the best. I am very concerned about YOU being in potentially bad financial situation with him not paying bills and wanting you to pay his credit card as he is planning to end the marriage. Him getting his teeth done and buying furnishing for his parents and expecting you to pay for it while he is planning to divorce you is a very bad sign. It is potentially scary.

When you meet with mediator, make sure you address this situation with you potentially being stuck with all bills. Separating finances immediately and possibly legal separation might be the first course of action to protect you financially.. Definitely bring it up on Thursday. Love is all good and dandy and no one wants to be a bad guy but you don’t want to be stuck with debt and be in a financial ruin. Sadly it looks like it might be heading that way if he continues on this path. Good luck on Thursday