I was thinking about "more" as being along the lines of, did more CSA happen. To that, i was surprised to learn - i think it was was from the superbook of processing csa, its very famous, its kinda old now, i think i read it ten years ago and it mighta been oldish then - anyway, to learn that for example a parent sharing too much of their premarital (not with the other parent) dating "adventures" with their young children - like in the form of stories - could be considered csa. So its not that "more" happened, it was "only" talking; but it was REALLY inappropriate, and yes thats CSA.

Somebody know what book im talking about? Its like a recovery bible. Two authors, maybe judith and susan? Slumber, you might find it helpful. I was all, oh i dont need that, but turned out i did.