I've seen at least 40 pdocs in my life and I've found they split into two camps: those who are caring and empathetic and those who are cold as ice. Honestly, I haven't experienced any that are "in the middle." And most do care about their patients, but there are those few who are seriously sickos...sadistic, power-hungry people who have no business being doctors.
I hope and pray, FluffyD, that you get the help you need from your current caregivers.