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Originally Posted by unaluna
Lemon, interesting that your choices were urologist vs cardiologist. Thats why i love you, my dear. That would probably solve sooooo many relationship problems!
My advice to chihiro is, Leap and the net will appear. Take advantage of this opportunity with your t. What are you protecting?
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I love you too.
Urology cause I have a lot of shame with anything to do with sex and cardio because I watched a clip from the movie Anastasia today where she meets her grandmother again, I thought "I have a broken heart."
It is only with the heart that one can see rightly anyway.
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I dont get why all the women saying, you dont have to talk about it if you dont want to, your t is just being a guy, poo on him, girls need to stick together, we have a secret.
I was never one of the girls, so i dont get that viewpoint. I was always an outsider. What do you give up by talking about these things to him?
My other viewpoint, about taking advantage of the opportunity, is that you wont always have a t with this history, this insight, this willingness and ability to explore these issues with you. Dont throw away your shot, right?
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I don't think I view it as a secret per se, but I see being forced into doing something you don't want to do and that makes me uncomfortable. It would be about respect and not taking things (information) by force. I talk to my brother about my periods, but that's because I feel comfortable enough to do so. He will also have female patients , but I wouldn't be able to do that with another male doctor.