Dear T,
Why do you still accept me? At least as of a couple years ago, this sort of thing made you very uncomfortable. Like where I'd feel like maybe I should leave and see someone else. But now you just seem very accepting. Like maybe it makes you a bit uncomfortable, but you just deal with it on your own. Instead of expressing that to me. It's very meaningful that you're still there. And very healing. That you won't reject me for this.


Maybe it's not so much that you're still there...but that the others shouldn't have left? Is that something to explore maybe? That my natural assumption is that the ones who left were correct, but the ones who stayed, there must be something wrong with them--or else they'd leave eventually, once they knew the real me, saw my needs, etc.

Love,
LT