(((((BrnEyedGrl)))))))))

I think this is the question of the century......Forgive me for not quoting properly but someone in here said, we are caregivers and fixers......SO TRUE.

It's hard to ever get to that point of "I can't fix this - he has to be the one to fix it." I believe that people don't just "change". Learned behavior takes time.....as it takes time to "undo".

Perhaps I still have a little too much faith in people. However, I had to come to the realization that I CHOOSE to live my life that way. But I do have boundaries as to how far I will go. It is very hard to get to that point and very hard to teach yourself "when" to stay and when to walk away.

It's a fine line. One many of us may walk many times.

It's tough. We're here for you.