For anyone interested in my ongoing T saga:

Psychiatrist spoke with T. She told him to back off, loosen up. He said he didn't mean to throw down a gauntlet... but he did. She said he really wants to keep working with me, that he and I have done years of good work, that he wants to work out this stalemate. She said he must have just panicked. She said that T and I shouldn't try to reconstruct what happened and why everything got so messed up, that we should just try to go forward. She advised that I try to take a half-step forward him and see what happens... and if it gets messed up again, she'll take another crack at it.

I'm "seeing" him via Zoom in a few hours.

I dunno about this.