No, everyone doesn't feel the same way nor are you a wuss who needs to just get on with it.

Those therapists are pretty uninformed if all one needed to do was to grow a backbone and get on with it. Their conclusions are rather laughable. This is not how life... or therapy works.

It just seems that those therapists available through the VA don't want to do long-term therapy. They're just like MDs or car mechanics: as long as the body/vehicle is on the road, who cares how well the engine runs. Very simplistic and uncaring attitude, to say the least.