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I resent the "don't ask, don't tell" aspect that many therapists stick with. It's left over from the old psychoanalytic tradition of the "blank slate" analyst. I believe it's outdated, in most cases.
I had a long-term therapist who was very tight-lipped about his personal life and it ended up with me being on the losing end when my therapy with him (after 6 years) suddenly ended, due to personal stuff that was going on for him - which he had not disclosed to me.
My current T told me in the beginning that she doesn't like to keep secrets. She's appropriately open about her personal life and has answered any questions I've asked her about herself. Her sincerity and openness has definitely deepened my trust in her.
As with almost all therapist-client concerns I suggest you bring your feelings up in session.
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