So Sorry for your Loss and So Sorry about what happened! i completely agree with the otherwise and wonderful posters about avoiding further replies or perhaps simply saying that you are not interested and that your Husband is no longer there. Your anger is completely understandable but i think it'd be best to keep it calm as much as possible. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @lizardlady, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!